They don't do it because they think other things are more important to them than their love ones.
Taking care of a partners wants and need romantically will actually help us to build strong relationships.
Answering the following questions will bring anyone to the understanding and the importance of reading romantic novels and even understanding the purpose of romance.
Do we really need romantic books?
Is romance important in our lives, especially marriages or relationships?
Does romance build up strong relationships in marriages?
And lastly, does being romantic help our lifestyle in any other way? I will be shooting more questions and answering them romantically :) if you stay with me here.
According to urbandictionary.com
True romance is doing something special or unexpected for someone you
love, even though you don't have to. Romance isn't a greeting card, it
isn't Valentine's Day, it isn't a box of chocolates, and it certainly
isn't a dozen roses (unless you like that sort of thing). Real romance
is not what modern society has been taught to think it is. Real romance
isn't manufactured. It is completely individual. Romance is for showing
the person you love that you're thinking about them. It shouldn't feel
forced. There are no limits to romance; it can be shown by a handwritten
note, by going for a walk, or even by making someone a sandwich.
Romance is something simple and sweet that reminds your partner why they
fell in love with you in the first place.
"John, just sitting out here with you watching the sky is all the romance I need."
by Q Miller
August 23, 2009
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| romance through cuddling |
People have a common slant to structure securities associated with romance and affection with each other through social communications, passion, ardour, adoration , devotion, fondness, intimacy and attachment through verbal correspondence or nonverbal signals.
We express these feelings to each other through sweet and favorable words, giving thoughtful gifts, showing love ones beautiful scenes when the subject can afford, and also satisfying our sexual, love and lustful pleasure through sensual arousing and body attachment. Men and women can go as far as buying the moon if possible to surprise their love ones romantically.
Most people usually connect romance with touching, smooching and sexual affection. It is actually far more than that. It is creating magical moments in our relationships through extraordinary ways just to let our love one know that we always care. Giving them a sense of security that always reminds them of someone there watching and planning their best moments for them.
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| romance in morning bed coffee |
Romance is when you plan romantic rendezvous during weekends, getting your love ones a local hotel room with great decorations and planning the scene just to make them feel extra special.Being romantic is giving your partner 100% attention when you go out or make out at dinner or other outings.(ESPECIALLY whey you switch off your business phones and WHATSAPP :)
It is the ideal attention to a partner making them count a lot in your life.It is the taken a moment of your time to tell them how beautiful, sexy, attractive, great, and making them feel loved and important to you.
But is romance all that it is?
Is romance part of love or is it just a type of lust? Before we answer these questions let us begin to understand the true meaning and purpose of romance.
The importance of romance in our marriage lives and relationships?
According to lifesource.com on the selfless of romance --"The importance of romance within marriage can’t be underestimated. It keeps your relationship going and your passions alive. Without it, I’m convinced, relationships will begin to deteriorate." |
| romance at old age |
Been romantic is the best communicative skill a person may express to a love one. It is very effective and contribute mostly to sustaining relationships. This is what makes a young girl sells her father's car just to help her boyfriend achieve an aim and people wouldn't understand. This is what made Romeo and Juliet in Shakespeare's novel became so famous and still being studied in literature. This is what made The Titanic movie become one of the best romantic movies and love movie in the 21st century and sold almost $2.1 billion.
And this is where we tackle the question: How can we be truly romantic if romance is very important in our lives?
The best way to be romantic is to be creative, selfless and self sacrifice. Being creative means planning ahead to surprise your partner in any other way like a nice romantic dinner, buying your lover his or her favorite car, food,or anything that interest them at a surprised time. These surprises can and may be achieved if proper attention is given to your love one.When you study them well enough, you might end up knowing exactly what they will be needing at an appropriate time and then you hit them up romantically. From the 9 of the most romantic birthdays i stumbled upon from Ben Kassoy, the most surprising story i enjoyed reading was the gift to Jasmin from her boyfriend.
QUOTE: "Jazmin:
A boyfriend once bought me an N64 on eBay. When I was a kid we didn't have the money for video game consoles, so I grew up playing at my friends' houses but never had my own. He knew this and made all my childhood dreams come true with a ‘90s throwback gift. I fought back tears at the kind, sentimental gesture, then proceeded to kick his butt in Super Smash Bros."
So Do we really need romantic books?
Well before we answer such a question, i will like to lay down some facts about great movies of this decade. Show me a great movie you think of the last decade and let me show you an entity of love and probably romance or the reason to it in the movie. The matrix was a powerful movie, sold out $463 million at the box office. How effective was the contribution of the love scene from the first part of the trilogy movie about Neo and Trinity?.It was obvious that Trinity had been in love with Neo from far off for quite a while, in spite of the fact that she kept on concealing her affections for him. But Close to the end, after he is executed by Agent Smith inside the Matrix, she addresses his interfaced physical body and uncovers that the Oracle let her know that she would experience passionate feelings for The One, a forecaster individual fit for controlling the Matrix to an exceptional degree. She then kisses him, whereupon he supernaturally comes back to life both in this present reality and inside the Matrix.
To me that moment was a moment of affection and romance. It was the power of romance and love that woke up Neo from the dead. Well off-course it a movie of fiction but it portrays how we are all connected with the imagination of the power of love which can conquer anything.
We need romance books because when we read romance novels we investigate the relationships between a man and a woman, a sentiment romance novel stresses the sentimental parts of their fascination. Different sorts of books underscore different things.
But reading a romance novel makes us capable for investigating what makes us human. Romance books can be serious, interesting, amusing, strong, lamentable, witty. It can touch all human feeling, from delight to gloom, from cleverness to outrage to retribution to benevolence. All fiction is a method for investigating the human soul.
These desires and affections are worth to explore and gives us ideas to exhibits in our daily life. The actions and events that happens in romantic novels somehow create guidance through our marriage and love life. It is therefore very essential to read these books.
Anyone who objects to romance novels somehow does not sustain a perfect relationship, may not be married or not in love and doesn't dream to be so or may be arrogant enough to use only the power of money to control their relationships. But real love comes from freewill and that is the foundation of love. And real romance comes from detailed studying of a love one from time to time and honoring their wants or needs the appropriate time.
Is Romance a sin?
The two verses from the Song of Songs stream from the heart of an energetic God. The story of redemption has been called the "divine romance" and that is absolutely the truth. The Church is Christ's bride. Idolatry is adultery. The ideas of marriage, binding and romance are among the best known and deepest analogies to the adoration for God for His people. God is affection, love and God is sentimental and romantic.
Some Christians think romance is a sin, well you might want to check the bible well and probably check the book of songs of songs chapter 1 going.
This question sounds a bit fun but actually it's also a rhetorical one because if animals perform romantic acts then how much more we humans :)
Therefore romance itself is a natural affection that makes us who we
are. God himself created it.
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These two characters begin their first scene off with a blast and the witty talk (particularly amid their initially meeting) kept me turning the pages. There is sexual strain in about every scene - albeit real fulfillment of said pressure is extremely restricted. I completed it in under a day and really thought that it was difficult to put down.
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The Bride Confesses Her Love
2 Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth!
For your love is better than wine;
3 your anointing oils are fragrant;
your name is oil poured out;
therefore virgins love you.
4 Draw me after you; let us run.
The king has brought me into his chambers.
For your love is better than wine;
3 your anointing oils are fragrant;
your name is oil poured out;
therefore virgins love you.
4 Draw me after you; let us run.
The king has brought me into his chambers.
Do Animals have romance?
This question sounds a bit fun but actually it's also a rhetorical one because if animals perform romantic acts then how much more we humans :)
Well i found myself these videos you might checkout for your answer. And then perhaps checkout these images ,videos and links.
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This
book is a must read. This book takes after a sort of straightforward
reason, yet puts an extraordinary turn on it. Yes, kid meets-young lady,
kid ticks-off-young lady, detest at the outset results, yet the
distinction being that young lady is an exceptionally effective legal
counselor and kid is "The Sexiest Man Alive" (three times over) and the
greatest name in Hollywood.An unimaginable plot told in an exceptionally authentic manner. At the point when Taylor Donovan figures out she should "mentor" Hollywood playboy Jason Andrews for his new approaching lawful thriller that he's planned to film, she's at first awed. Anyway after a no-show (twice) on his part, she's not inspired when he walks into the court two days late and a dollar short.
These two characters begin their first scene off with a blast and the witty talk (particularly amid their initially meeting) kept me turning the pages. There is sexual strain in about every scene - albeit real fulfillment of said pressure is extremely restricted. I completed it in under a day and really thought that it was difficult to put down.
Jason Andrews is accustomed to having ladies fall at his feet. At the point when Taylor Donovan treats him with chilling disdain, he's stunned. She's dissimilar to whatever other lady he's ever met: uninterested in the spotlight, apparently insusceptible to his advances, and shockingly fit for saying no to him. She's the ideal test. Furthermore the more she rejects him, the more he starts to understand she might simply be his ideal match.
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thanks anonymous. :)
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